Gifts and Misses of Life

Insecurity and solitude are the two things which I feel one need to be panicked about  in   life . Tonight when I was lying on my bed talking to my friend I felt it for the first time that I 'm dipping into little  circles of  solitude and Insecurity and I myself will enlarge it making it impossible for me to plea for a revival. I had taken up a decision to live alone long back then was confident with strong reasons backing my strength to think so and two best pals smiling on my left and right side when I turned my head I could only blindly see their smile and I was content and slept closing my eyelids so tight for going blind with them was well perfect for me.

Now when they have love spurting and spaces filled with ecstasy , I feel I ' m a stranger lost and abandoned  on a sea shore who could not enjoy the sea any more but rather its roaring felt scary. I'm shrunk into myself , making my world look more smaller than it was and only guest there is called silence which is noisy than the peal of a giant bell.

Life is an experience which is not the same experience for all , but it wraps different things differently for us and its more of sharing and giving  like we do share feelings , love , BED, care and all under the sky with the loved ones. When you don't have someone dear to love in a moonlit night , to hold and kiss in dark room , to hug and whisper in a winter ..then you missed  some rare gifts from life.

We learn lessons through out our life from mistakes we do , from experiences and of course from others . But the most relevant and crucial lesson should be that , that you cant survive with out love and care , should be loved and cared  and should love and care..what is life without these ..I know I learnt Friends and family cant be a substitute for someone special ... for I tell you having a vacant heart is more heavier than it is being occupied.